How to help your loved ones after the Dementia diagnosis - local dementia support services

We know that hearing the news about a new diagnosis of dementia can be daunting. So the team at Devika Care Company, who offer Specialist Dementia Care in Cambridgeshire have put together some guidance for those dealing with that news for the first time, in the form of a 'to do' list that will help to make you feel more prepared.

The first thing you need to do, right there at that moment is to ensure you fully understand the diagnosis. “Dementia” is a general term. There are different types (such as Alzheimer's, vascular dementia, or Lewy body dementia). Understanding the specific diagnosis helps guide treatment and expectations.

What to do: Ask your doctor to explain the type, stage, and what symptoms to expect. Get a second opinion if you’re unsure.

Tip: Keep a personal health file for tests, medications, and key contacts to stay organised.

Now that you know the facts, it's time to let family and friends know. There is no need to panic but there will be need for support over the coming months and years, so the sooner other loved ones know the better. This way you can start to prepare for the future, helping each other to learn as much as possible about the condition that has led to the Dementia in your loved one; and get family ready to take on the role of carers when needed in the future.

What to do: Make sure you explain the facts and let them know you are going to have a professional support team to call on too (see next paragraph below for more info on this).

Tip: Try to include your loved one in the conversation so they don't feel like they are relinquishing control.

Ok, next step - it's time to pull together your professional support team; remember, you are not alone on this journey! Your team can include doctors, adult social workers, occupational therapists, dementia specialists and other carers. And most importantly, introduce them to your family and friends support group that you have already created.

What to do: Ask about local dementia support services who provide help for people living with Dementia

Tip: Join a local or online dementia support group, as sharing the journey helps on so many ways.

Start legal and financial planning early. The earlier legal documents are in place, the more control your loved one has in making decisions. They will also advise you on other things such as adding a second person to household bills etc.

What to do: Arrange a power of attorney, update wills, review insurance and care costs. Involve a dementia specialist solicitor or financial advisor.

Tip: Try to frame this as empowering preparation, not giving up control.

It's very important to adapt the home for safety & simplicity. Simple adjustments can prevent confusion, falls, or wandering.

What to do: Label rooms and cupboards, install grab bars, remove clutter, add motion-sensor lights.

Tip: Memory aids like whiteboards, daily calendars, and medication organisers are really useful.

And last but not least, try to prioritise emotional wellness and daily joy. Emotional health fuels quality of life for both the person diagnosed with Dementia and their caregivers. At our Dementia day care service, we ensure that our attendees engage in different activities such as music therapy, brain games and puzzles, adapting each activity to each attendees abilities, interests, and stage of Dementia.

What to do: Create routines with music, nature walks, puzzles, or art and always celebrate the small wins.

Tip: Don’t wait for “the right time” - live meaningfully now and do all the things you’ve always wanted to do - there’s always a way with support.

If you need more information about lasting power of attorney, you can contact Jane at Wills Made Clear to discuss your options. If you are considering taking on a role in the Dementia Care sector, check out our volunteer opportunities on the website.